American vs. Korean Dramas

There has been a rising popularity in America with an obsession with Korean dramas. Many people I know who are fans of Korean dramas argue that, in fact, these TV series are better than American dramas. And, in many ways, I agree.

However, I am the type of person to deal in facts. I am not simply one to say: I love Korean dramas and hate American dramas. Instead, I am the type who looks at both the positives and negatives of both sides.

So, whether you are an avid Korean drama supporter or have never watched a TV series made outside the United States, here are some of the biggest differences between American and Korean dramas.


1. Length

You know that seriously annoying drama that continues on forever. The first seasons are great, but at some point the series just gets repetitive and boring. Well, not in Korean dramas. These dramas are extremely short by American standards, averaging between sixteen to twenty-four episodes—though some do run for around fifty episodes. The only dramas longer than that, known as daily dramas, may run up to two hundred episodes (similar to daily soap operas in America), but each only lasts one season.

One would be hard pressed to find even a single drama that airs in Korea more than one season, unlike American dramas, which can last many seasons until the popularity drops so much that the TV channel is forced to cancel the series, usually without first tying up any loose ends in the plot.

This is one reason I like Korean dramas. Everything is planned out and completed timely. There is no worry that the drama will end before plot holes are explained—that is, if the drama is well written. It is one season. You do not invest your heart in the drama just to have your hopes dashed after years of watching it and never knowing what will happen (that does not mean that your heart will not be ripped out by Kdramas and stomped upon by a herd of wild boars after two episodes, however).

Despite this, there are also drawbacks to Korean dramas’ length. Often times, we want a second season. You get into the characters and the drama, and though the plot is tied up, sometimes certain characters are left alone—like the second male lead, who we will talk about more later. Although I am not a huge fan of series going on indefinitely, I do love to watch a drama for several seasons to really get to know the characters.

Thus, there are both positives and negatives to these lengths.


2. Romance

Romance is a prominent feature in pretty much every TV series from around the world. However, in America and Korea it is handled very different.

First, in Korean dramas one romance is forefront in the drama. You know the main couple introduced in the first episode is going to end up together in the end—unless one or both dies, that is. However, in American dramas there is much less certainty of main romance. Characters jump around, going from partner to partner.

Even if there is a main character, there is not often a main couple. Korean dramas, however, have a soul focus on the main couple, though there may be secondary couples who are fan favorites.

Second, sex. Yes, there is no way to avoid this point. Sex and kissing are common in American dramas. You probably cannot watch one main stream episode of any drama without a kissing or sex scene—that is, unless the series has a focus on, say, crime (like NCIS). However, it is very rare to see a kiss scene in a Korean drama and even more foreign to see a sex scene. While some more recent adult dramas in Korea have started incorporating more passionate kissing, it is very dumbed down compared to American dramas.

I, who am not a fan of just watching people slobber over each other when we could be learning who the murderer is or if lies will be exposed, prefer Korean dramas for this reason.

Third—and this is similar to the previous point—, physical relationships are less important in Korean dramas than in American series. Korean dramas give emphasis on the characters getting to know each other. Just holding hands is a big deal in Korean dramaland.

However, in American dramas the couple usually has sex quickly in the series. Korean dramas demonstrate the psychological and emotional effects of relationships—both friendships, parent/children relationships, etc. American series give little emphasis to friendships and more to sexual relationships between characters.


3. Women & Men

The two sexes are portrayed very different in the two countries.

First: Women. Women are less sexualized in Korean dramas. And, if they are sexualized (for example, commonly wearing skimpy clothing and flirting with multiple men), they are considered the bad girls—the ones who are always trying to steal the main man away from the main woman.

The female protagonist is usually innocent, good, but still quirky. She is genuinely a kind person—despite sometimes being spoiled (in the cast of the protagonist from My Love From Another Star) or clumsy. Either way, she is a morally sound person in many ways.

In American dramas, women being catty, manipulative, and sexualized are for all female characters, not simply the negatively portrayed women. While American dramas do have more gritty, disturbed female characters—which I appreciate—they often times are so devoid of morals it feels as if there is no truly good character to root for.

Second: Men. Now, the biggest difference I see in the two countries’ dramas is how Korea and America differs in what they see as masculine. In Korean dramas, men being more feminine is not seen as less than a man—or gay. Look at pretty much all American dramas. If a man is portrayed as liking fashion and being sensitive to the feelings of others, he is usually gay. Whereas, in Korean dramas men can be all this and yet still heterosexual.

One of my favorite examples is the character Lee Min Ho portrays in City Hunter—if you haven’t seen it, I would highly recommend it. As my mother pointed out the first time I forced her to watch it, he wears pink pants. Not only that, but he has impeccable hair and a great fashion sense. However, he is also a secret vigilante, fighting corruption in the Korean government. He breaks into places, jumps off buildings, and engages in pretty cool fight scenes. This seems like a contradiction, but this is one of the reasons I like Korean dramas—because tough men do not have to be big, muscly guys.

4. Love Triangles

Ah, yes. Now this is a theme that is in pretty much every Korean drama, but something I am amazed to say is becoming more common in American dramas too. This is the one section I will be talking about in which the two countries are actually becoming surprisingly similar. Look at American TV series like The Vampire Diaries, The Shannara Chronicles, and the Twilight franchise (though not actually a TV series).

However, the biggest difference is that pretty much all Korean dramas feature a love triangle which is the main focus of the drama, which always features a woman and two men. While in American dramas  there are love triangles, it is not often one that is as focal to the plot as Twilight’s Jacob, Edward, and Bella.

For me, this is one drawback to Korean dramas simply because it is so repetitive to see two men fight over the poor girl stuck in the middle. It does add drama, but you always know the main girl and guy will end up together, so what is the point of it? Falling in love with the second guy only to know he will end up alone in the end? That is why I do like the rare Korean drama where the girl ends up with the second male lead (like Empress Ki and Nail Shop Paris).


The Conclusion

Clearly, I am slightly biased. I love Korean dramas, and have since 2009. However, I will be the first to confess that they have their clichés (men dragging around the girls, for example) and similar plots. But that is the same in America as well. If you haven’t watched a Korean drama, check out a couple. Maybe it’s not your cup of tea. It is mine.

Speaking of tea, I think I want some. Or some Ramen. Yes…ramen. Let me know what you all think of Korean dramas. Are they better than American dramas, or lacking? Which are your favorite TV series—whether American or Korean? Let me know in the comments.

Best wishes on your adventures in life,

Madame Writer

23 thoughts on “American vs. Korean Dramas

  1. I discovered K-dramas, Chinese, and Taiwanese Dramas during Covid! I was pleased to see your clear comparisons between K-Dramas and American Dramas. I’ve tried to explain to my husband why I love K-dramas so much and this clarifies what I’ve been feeling too. Watching K, C, T- drama has brought me such joy during this difficult time!!!

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    1. I’m so glad you feel the same way! Covid does feel like the time to binge shows, and no shows are better to binge than Asian dramas. I’m currently trying to get my boyfriend into watching them too. Thank you and best wishes in your Asian drama watching!


  2. stumbled across this post and really loved it! Your memes made me laugh – I was going to make a blog post talking about the differences between k-dramas and American shows as well since I’ve been binging lots of k-dramas lately and am seeing a profound difference in both cultures. I definitely definitely agree with all of your points up there! Thanks for this!

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  3. Oh you just perfectly summed up what I had in my mind. And you have good observational skills. Now I can explain to my friends better why I prefer k-drama over American TV shows. I especially dislike it when they over simply the act of having sex with many people. While in k-drama the little things in life are made beautiful and of course dramatically portrayed but I love it. Haha.

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  4. It is a very interesting comparison! Though I haven’t watched many TV series, according to my experiences, I totally agree with you! My main complaint about American dramas are the length and the uncertainty of relationships. Take the example of Desperate Housewives, it has so many episodes and many people in it have an affair with their neighbors. Two characters go out on a date. Then They get married. They divorce. They respectively go out with someone else in the neighborhood. And they get married again… It is dramatic to some degree, but it makes me drained… And in my opinion, too many dramatic twists and turns more or less damage the consistency of the characters.
    But American dramas are really intriguing. And I like to watch the sitcoms. I don’t know if it’s due to cultural differences, or if it’s because I haven’t watched enough American dramas, some tropes native audience might get sick of seem not so annoying to me. I find them unique and I’m curious about everything different from China. For example, sex. In American dramas, sex is normal and natural while in China, we still don’t have proper sexual education. Sex is something we avoid talking about (even between parents and their kids), it’s getting better these years, though. Saying that, I agree that there’re sexual scenes in American dramas that actually add nothing to the plot.

    Speaking of Korean drama, I feel they’re romantic. And sometimes it feels the director and screenwriter like to make people cry… too much… (and so do Chinese dramas). By the way, I find korean dramas and korean movies are quite different. Korean movies, from my point of view, are more serious and they pay more attention to dark sides.

    And it’s just my humble opinion! 😊

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    1. It’s interesting to hear thoughts on American dramas from someone outside of America. The uncertainty of romantic relationships is one of my pet peeves about American tv too. I want to see people fall in love, build their relationship, and marry. I don’t want to see hook-ups and then break-ups. But for someone who didn’t grow up with American tv tropes, I can see how interesting it might be to watch them, especially sitcoms. There are some good American tv shows, but they are rarer than bad ones.

      It’s interesting that you mention that China doesn’t have sex education, because America has the opposite problem. We have too much sex education, encouraging kids to have sex when they are still in high school, as long as they use protection. I think there is a fine balance in teaching children about sex, and neither country seems to have achieved it yet. Maybe someday!

      And yes, I’m pretty sure every Korean director wants to make you cry! Even in Korean comedies, they are usually contain very dark scenes. I have watched both Korean movies and dramas and I agree that they are very different. Even the movie comedies are darker. Korea has some great war movies as well.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this topic! I’m really curious to know what other people think of these two country’s tv shows.

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  5. each has their pros and cons but what i like most about korean dramas is having fashionable emotionally sensitive but heterosexual men. i was born into a….”traditional” family i guess and i didn’t know about gay bi or pan people but thanks to that i was free from the “gay” stereotypes. (i did know about trans people tho weird lol) now my young self being bewildered about the existence of gay etc people aside, i was VERY surprised when many people, especially those from america to VERY FIRMLY BELIEVE that men who wear pink, who’re fashionable, who’re emotionally sensitive and clever, who works as a hairdresser, all equal to being gay. i could not believe that those who took pride in being so progressive and openminded to stick to that ridiculous prejudice. i mean, by that a lot of women would be lesbian cuz they(we) wear blue all the time, but practically everyone disagrees with this. seems to that it’s okay for girls to be “boyish” but it’s not okay for boys to be “girlish” in america is seems (cynical face). wow…the hypocrisy.


    1. I agree. People, men and women, should not be put in boxes. Just because a man wants to wear pink doesn’t mean he has to be gay. Just because a woman likes more masculine things doesn’t mean she’s lesbian. I feel as if our society tells us that, if we don’t fit into the stereotype of what is heterosexual, that we have to be homosexual. It’s so unfair. I love this about Korean dramas too. Even if the men are more emotional and fashionable, they still are masculine. Thanks for your thoughts!


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  7. The thing that bothers me about American dramas is that there is too much sex. Correction, too much sex that ends up not servicing the story. You can make it work but most of the times it comes across as cheap and pointless to me. However there is an audience that does like it. I’m not saying get rid of it but have more shows where it is meaningful at least.


    1. I could not agree more. Those types of scenes are not about love–physical sex can be part of love, but not what love is about. Love is about sacrifice, which is one of the reasons I like Korean dramas because they show couples sacrificing selfish gains in order to help the other. And yes, I wish at least some American shows featured more realistic, meaningful love.


  8. Merry Christmas, everyone! I know this post isn’t exactly in line with writing, but it does examine different aspects of inspirations. Many would agree that inspirations so often come from expected places, like books and TV we watch. So, I wanted to examine this because I think watching a wide variety of cinema also helps a writer expand their database of knowledge and inspiration. Next week, I promise, my post will be more geared towards books.

    Have the best holiday adventures!

    Madame Writer


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